Please Tell Me When to Shut Up (But Nicely) — part II
One of my business partners and I are in the habit of interrupting people whenever they’ve said something that gets us excited.
Never mind that they’re only on sentence 2 of a 4-sentence paragraph that we will really profit from hearing… Sentence 2 made us think of something interesting that we have to share right now! Fortunately, John and I trust and like each other enough that we can interrupt the interrupt with something like, “Hey, John — Amy’s still talking!”. Said with a smile, it usually gets a giggle and a shut up.
The key to the trust is that we know that we have each other’s interests in mind. When he interrupts, I know he’s not shutting me down to make me look bad — he’s shutting me down so I can get what I want. And he always does it with a smile.
